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Micromanagers at Work

BY: LIZ HARDIE How do micromanagers affect the work ethic of their employees?  After doing a specific job for several years, you would believe an employee would know what they are doing.  Instead of having faith in your employee, you have a lack of trust, lack of morale and lack of motivation.  The micromanager makes you doubt the work you are doing, even though it is correct, since it is the same as what you…

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MY MOTHER, SO BRAVE

BY: LIZ HARDIE My mother, so brave, best known in our family for your advice, kind heart, constant love, and strength To protect your husband, children, grandchildren, anyone close to you, you will go to any length There is nothing more powerful than a mother’s love, a mother who believes in her children My mother, so brave, stands behind us and everyone she loves, supporting every one of them To be given such a strong…

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DISAPPEAR and REAPPEAR

BY: LIZ HARDIE Disappear and reappear, in and out of her life, you continue to go How on Earth with these actions do you expect her love for you to grow When she needed you most you were never there Making her feel like you truly did not care You had other plans or your work was always top excuse When in town she had to deal with your different girlfriends, their mental and physical…

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Abuse - Assault Depression - Anxiety Mental Health - Personal Struggles Strength

A CON and A NARCISSIST

BY: LIZ HARDIE You are a con and a narcissist Gaining the trust of most people you meet Reading people, faking smiles and flaunting your charm, you felt like quite the catch Knowing what to say at the right time, words so sweet Those damn words, almost all of them stories and lies A con and I fell hard, fell in love with you Falling for the hurt I heard in your voice and saw…

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Depression - Anxiety Mental Health - Personal Struggles Miscellaneous Recovery and Well-Being Strength

LIES YOU TOLD, WILL RUIN YOU

BY: LIZ HARDIE As a child you never thought anything of the lies you told They rolled right off of your tongue as if they were the truth, although they were not Those small lies you told growing up seemed like nothing to you The more lies you told, the easier it became, validation is all you sought You never thought about or cared about the people you hurt Only wanting to make yourself look…

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Abuse - Assault Mental Health - Personal Struggles Strength

HEAD GAMES

BY: LIZ HARDIE Head games played by others can either make you or break you It is your choice, your decision on how you want to follow through Do you let them hurt you and break you down emotionally Or do you rise above the games, hurtful words and just be who you are meant to be For years I chose to be manipulated and controlled, head games other played consumed my mind Letting others…

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Mental Health - Personal Struggles Recovery and Well-Being Strength

Can You Admit It?

By: Liz Hardie Admit it, you usually call me the “mean one” The one who supposedly breaks hearts Believe me, it was not so easy for me to run Decisions were not made by throwing darts The pain I have been put through is not right Abuse not many can truly understand I was able to stay, learning to deal with the fight The relationships I did leave, were never planned Alcohol or a hobby,…

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Mental Health - Personal Struggles Recovery and Well-Being Strength

DO I BELIEVE IN FAIRY TALES?

By: LIZ HARDIE When reading fairy tales to a small child, you will always see a smile on their face Children then believe fairy tales will happen but for me it wasn’t the case I did at one time dream of finding that Prince who would sweep me off my feet But unlike in the fairy tales the bad guy was never so easy to spot when you’d first meet Sexual assaults turned my fairy…

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Abuse - Assault Depression - Anxiety Self-Care Strength

RECOVER FROM ABUSE

By: Liz Hardie Mental abuse can be highly damaging to someone, although difficult you can survive and recover from abuse The time it takes a person to recover could take months or years, it will not happen overnight The mental pain and anguish I was personally put through is hard for me to wrap my head around Thinking I was loved, in reality I was being manipulated and controlled, nothing I said or did was…

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Depression - Anxiety Strength

THE CHILD’S ENVIRONMENT

BY: LIZ HARDIE The child’s environment is important, they have anxiety and fears just like their parents They feel your pain and your happiness, to them you are transparent No matter how much you try to hid, they see right through it You can say you are fine, but if allowed they’d call bullshit Children feed off their parent’s emotions every single day, some days confused Other days so happy and over the moon with…

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